Sexual addiction earns a big-screen discussion that is equal parts serious and silly in “Thanks for Sharing,” a sober-minded dramedy from the screenwriter of “The Kids are All Right.”
The serious side spins out of the struggles of Adam (Mark Ruffalo), a 12-step devotee who walks the straight and narrow, prays and is never more than a phone call away from his stern, no-nonsense sponsor, Mike (Tim Robbins).
The silly stuff comes from the comic struggles of Neil (Josh Gad), an addict who pays lip service to 12-step dogma, but who cannot stop bumping into women on the subway or leering at every woman he sees on the streets of New York — a veritable minefield of legs, short skirts and cleavage.
“Is it me, or is Manhattan just one big (bleeping) catwalk?”
Adam is five years sober, careful to avoid the Internet and even TV, doing all he can to purge his life of the sexual temptation that so permeates modern culture. Titillating magazine ads, taxi TVs with leotard clad workout commercials, buxom billboard models — how can he keep it together?
Then he meets the adorable and gorgeous Phoebe (Gwyneth Paltrow) and the sparks fly. She confesses her “big secret” straight away — she survived breast cancer. He hides his, especially after she confesses that she could never get involved “with an addict” again.
Contractor Mike’s addictions appear to have been many, which is why he struggles and fumes through each day, spouting self-help aphorisms as he does.
“Feelings are like children. You don’t want them driving the car, but you shouldn’t stuff them in the trunk, either.”
Neither man has much time for Neil, an emergency-room doctor with mommy issues (Carol Kane), given to inappropriate jokes, thoughts and behavior. But he’s at the 12-step meeting, he has an honest moment, and that touches fellow sex addict Defe (pop singer Alecia “Pink” Moore).